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The Origins of Monogamy: When and Why Did It Begin?

Monogamy—one of the defining features of modern relationships. In a world where most people think of romantic love as between two committed partners, it’s easy to assume monogamy has always been the norm. But this hasn’t always been the case. So, when did monogamy begin, and what drove humans to start pairing up exclusively? Whether […]

by Cristian Savulescu

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What Does it Mean to Be Polyamorous? Polyamorous Relationship

In a world where monogamous relationships are seen as the norm, polyamory offers a fresh, ethical approach to love and connection that’s rooted in trust, consent, and open communication. But what does it really mean to be polyamorous? How does it differ from monogamous relationships or an open relationship? Here, we’ll dive into the foundations […]

by Cristian Savulescu

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Kitchen Table Polyamory: Nurturing Communities of Love and Understanding

There’s something profoundly beautiful about gathering around a kitchen table with loved ones, sharing not just meals but moments, stories, and genuine connection. Kitchen table polyamory embraces this spirit of togetherness, creating space for meaningful bonds between partners, metamours, and everyone who forms part of your intimate community. This style of polyamory focuses on inclusivity, […]

by Antonia J

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Do Poly Relationships Work? Exploring the Foundations of Successful Polyamory

The question often arises: do poly relationships work? The answer, like in any relationship structure, depends on the people involved, their communication, and the shared effort to build trust and understanding. For many, polyamory—the practice of maintaining romantic relationships with multiple partners—offers a fulfilling alternative to traditional monogamy. However, it requires a thoughtful approach to […]

by Antonia J

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Understanding Polycules: Creating Space for Love’s Many Forms

When we open our hearts to different ways of loving, we often discover that meaningful connections can flourish in many forms. A polycule emerges when people choose to create multiple loving relationships built on trust, open communication, and mutual care. Let’s explore this approach to relationships with understanding and practical wisdom. What Makes a Polycule […]

by Antonia J

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Polyamorous Relationships: Exploring New Ways To Love

Love expresses itself in infinite ways, each as unique as the hearts involved. In exploring the depths of human connection, we discover how relationships can expand and flourish beyond traditional boundaries. Today, let’s explore polyamory with the care and attention this path deserves, acknowledging both its profound beauty and inherent challenges. What Is Polyamory? Polyamory—meaning […]

by Antonia J

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Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell: Balancing Trust and Independence in DADT Relationships

For many of us, traditional monogamy can feel a bit too rigid. Enter the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) relationship structure—a framework where you and your partner can explore connections beyond your primary relationship, but with one crucial rule: don’t share the details. This approach has become increasingly popular within non-monogamous and polyamorous communities. It’s […]

by Antonia J

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Polyamorous Relationship Rules: Creating Boundaries That Work for Everyone

Polyamory has gained recognition as more people embrace diverse forms of connection and intimacy. A polyamorous relationship involves consensual, loving relationships with multiple partners, challenging traditional notions of monogamy. But with multiple hearts in the mix, how do you keep the love flowing smoothly? The key lies in setting clear boundaries and practising open communication. […]

by Antonia J

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Being Friends with an Ex: Can It Really Work?

Breakups are never easy, and after the dust settles, you might find yourself wondering: Should we stay in each other’s lives? Perhaps your ex was a significant part of your world, or maybe you value their perspective and emotional support. The idea of transitioning from a romantic relationship to a friendship can feel comforting, but […]

by Antonia J

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Subspace and Aftercare: Why Emotional Connection Is Key

In the world of BDSM, emotional and physical connections form the foundation of safe and fulfilling play. These dynamics often require vulnerability, trust, and mutual understanding. Two integral aspects of these experiences are subspace and aftercare—concepts that go beyond physical sensations to focus on emotional well-being and intimacy. But what do these terms mean, and […]

by Antonia J

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Bondage 101: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started Safely and Sensually

Ready to explore a new dimension of intimacy and connection? Whether you’re curious about trying bondage for the first time or looking to learn more of the ropes (pun intended), this guide will give you everything you need to get started with confidence, safety, and a touch of adventure. Bondage can be an exciting way […]

by Antonia J

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First Time Tied Up? Here’s Your Complete Guide to Bondage for Beginners

Bondage offers a playful, intimate way to explore trust, sensation, and desire. Despite its bold reputation, beginner bondage can be as light or as adventurous as you’d like. It’s all about discovering what excites you both, guided by communication, consent, and a willingness to explore together. This guide to bondage for beginners will help you […]

by Antonia J

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From Vanilla to BDSM: How to Introduce Bondage into Your Relationship

If you’re looking to add excitement, trust, and intimacy to your relationship, bondage could be a wonderful avenue to explore. As a core element of BDSM, bondage combines consensual restraint with a focus on connection and shared pleasure. Whether it’s soft handcuffs, a silky blindfold, or exploring deeper dynamics, bondage opens up new ways to […]

by Antonia J

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The Best Bondage Techniques to Spice Up Your Love Life

Bondage offers a thrilling blend of creativity, connection, and sensuality. Whether you’re exploring for the first time or eager to refine your skills, bondage techniques allow partners to deepen trust and unlock new layers of intimacy. But as much as bondage is about tying and teasing, it’s also about safety, communication, and consent. This guide […]

by Antonia J

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Should I Stay Friends With My Ex? Helpful Insights and Relationship Advice

Breaking up is rarely simple. Beyond the heartache of ending a romantic relationship, there’s often the question: Should I stay friends with my ex? For some, maintaining a connection feels natural, even comforting. For others, the idea of staying in touch raises concerns about lingering emotions or disrupted boundaries. Whether this is your first breakup […]

by Antonia J

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Is ENM Right for You? The Basics of Ethical Non-Monogamy Explained

Relationships are evolving, and for many, traditional monogamy doesn’t feel like the only—or even the best—option anymore. Enter ethical non-monogamy (ENM), a relationship style that’s all about exploring connection, love, and intimacy in ways that feel authentic and honest. If you’ve ever wondered whether you need to stick to the one-partner model or felt curious […]

by Antonia J

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What Is Subspace? A Beginner’s Guide to This Powerful Sensation

What Is Subspace? Subspace. The word alone might sound mysterious, almost sci-fi, but in the realm of BDSM, it’s a deeply transformative state that can feel euphoric, vulnerable, and freeing—all at once. For many submissives, subspace is a pinnacle experience during BDSM play, offering an altered state of consciousness where reality seems to shift, sensations […]

by Antonia J

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Breaking the Rules With Relationship Anarchy

When it comes to love, many of us grow up with a familiar script: meet someone special, fall in love, settle down, and live happily ever after.

by Antonia J

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Curious? What It Means to Be Heteroflexible

As our understanding of sexuality and gender grows, terms like heteroflexibility are helping people describe and navigate their unique experiences of attraction.

by Antonia J

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Is Heteroflexible the New Normal? Exploring Attraction Beyond Labels

The language people use to express their unique experiences of attraction has expanded.

by Antonia J