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Antonia J

Antonia J is a seasoned writer, editor, and consultant with over a decade of experience, specialising in topics that celebrate identity, diversity, empowerment, and intimacy. As a proud bisexual and neurodivergent woman, her work is fuelled by a passion for fostering acceptance, inclusivity, and meaningful conversations about human connection and liberation.She has collaborated with pioneering brands such as Killing Kittens, WAX, Coco de Mer, Hunger Magazine, and The Diversity Standards Collective, bringing visions to life through impactful words, creativity and storytelling. Notable contributions include crafting articles with sex and relationship experts for Killing Kittens, shaping the WAX community’s inclusive values, and conceptualising Coco de Mer & Sotheby’s “Eroticism in Art” film. This project, a collaboration with acclaimed photographer and director Rankin, drew thought-provoking parallels between the worlds of art and sex and was showcased at Sotheby’s “Erotic Passion & Desire” event in 2018. Her writing has also featured in DIVA Magazine, the leading global publication for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary individuals.Drawing from her extensive study and lived experience, Antonia’s work explores themes such as relationship dynamics, tantra, polyamory, unicorns, shibari, mindfulness and mental health awareness. Deeply inspired by the intersections of psychology, attachment theory, and personal transformation, she brings a knowledgeable and non-judgemental voice to the evolving dialogue on modern relationships and sexual expression, and views every connection and exploration as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
Desires and Exploration

How to Pick The Best Safe Word That’s Fun, Easy, and Effective

When it comes to adding a little spice to the bedroom, communication is everything. And sometimes, the most thrilling adventures […]
by Ami Green
safe word
Desires and Exploration

Challenging Norms, Creating Bonds: The Principles of Relationship Anarchy

In a world where “happily ever after” often comes with a rigid script, relationship anarchy (RA) offers an alternative that […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

What is Kitchen Table Polyamory? A Recipe for Connection and Community

Exploring different ways of loving can help us discover the meaningful connections we’re capable of building. Kitchen table polyamory is […]
by Antonia J
Kitchen Table Polyamory
Dating and Relationships

Building Your Polycule: Creating Meaningful Connections Beyond Monogamy

What is a Polycule? Understanding Love’s Many Forms When we open our hearts to different ways of loving, we find […]
by Antonia J
Building Your Polycule
Dating and Relationships

What’s a Polycule? Understanding Love’s Many Forms

What is a Polycule? Understanding Love’s Many Forms When we open our hearts to different ways of loving, we find […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

What Is an ENM Relationship? Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy

Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) refers to relationship styles where individuals consensually engage in multiple romantic or intimate relationships. Ethical Non-Monogamy is […]
by Ami Green
What Is an ENM Relationship
Desires and Exploration

What Does It Mean to Be Heteroflexible?

Heteroflexibility is a term you might be hearing more often, especially as discussions around sexuality become more inclusive and nuanced. […]
by Ami Green
Heteroflexibility
Dating and Relationships

What’s the Difference Between ENM and Polyamory

In recent years, non-monogamous relationships have moved from the fringes to the mainstream. With more people exploring new approaches to […]
by Ami Green
What’s the Difference Between ENM and Polyamory
Dating and Relationships

The Origins of Monogamy: When and Why Did It Begin?

Monogamy – one of the defining features of modern relationships. In a world where most people think of romantic love […]
by Ami Green
when did monogamy begin
Dating and Relationships

What Does it Mean to Be Polyamorous? Polyamorous Relationship

In a world where monogamous relationships are seen as the norm, polyamory offers a fresh, ethical approach to love and […]
by Ami Green
Polyamorous
Dating and Relationships

Kitchen Table Polyamory: Nurturing Communities of Love and Understanding

There’s something profoundly beautiful about gathering around a kitchen table with loved ones, sharing not just meals but moments, stories, […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

Do Poly Relationships Work? Exploring the Foundations of Successful Polyamory

The question often arises: do poly relationships work? The answer, like in any relationship structure, depends on the people involved, […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

Understanding Polycules: Creating Space for Love’s Many Forms

When we open our hearts to different ways of loving, we often discover that meaningful connections can flourish in many […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

Polyamorous Relationships: Exploring New Ways To Love

Love expresses itself in infinite ways, each as unique as the hearts involved. In exploring the depths of human connection, […]
by Antonia J
Desires and Exploration

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell: Balancing Trust and Independence in DADT Relationships

For many of us, traditional monogamy can feel a bit too rigid. Enter the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) relationship […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

Polyamorous Relationship Rules: Creating Boundaries That Work for Everyone

Polyamory has gained recognition as more people embrace diverse forms of connection and intimacy. A polyamorous relationship involves consensual, loving […]
by Antonia J
Dating and Relationships

Being Friends with an Ex: Can It Really Work?

Breakups are never easy, and after the dust settles, you might find yourself wondering: Should we stay in each other’s […]
by Antonia J
Self Care

Subspace and Aftercare: Why Emotional Connection Is Key

In the world of BDSM, emotional and physical connections form the foundation of safe and fulfilling play. These dynamics often […]
by Antonia J
Desires and Exploration

Bondage 101: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started Safely and Sensually

Ready to explore a new dimension of intimacy and connection? Whether you’re curious about trying bondage for the first time […]
by Antonia J
Desires and Exploration

First Time Tied Up? Here’s Your Complete Guide to Bondage for Beginners

Bondage offers a playful, intimate way to explore trust, sensation, and desire. Despite its bold reputation, beginner bondage can be […]
by Antonia J